Mary Faltz
MATCH ALIGNED! is now available for pre-order. CLICK HERE for more information....

About Mary

 

Dr. Mary Faltz is a clinical research scientist and an accredited pharmacist. The second born in a family of six children, she is a survivor of child abuse that lasted 16 years.

Pushed to the extreme by her abuser, she finally gathered all her courage and pressed charges when she turned 26.

Match aligned! LAUNCH

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Book launch & Keynote on 14th february in lux-city

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Offre de services (FR)

Coffee with Mary

1:1 informal conversation for clarity and connection (60 or 90 minutes)

Code of conduct

To ensure a safe, respectful, and empowering space for meaningful conversation, all clients are asked to agree to the following principles before attending a session:

1. Respect & Boundaries

Sessions are held in public cafés or quiet shared spaces for mutual comfort and safety. Any form of aggressive, disrespectful, inappropriate, or intrusive behavior will result in immediate termination of the session. Please arrive on time and respect the agreed-upon session duration.

2. Confidentiality

Everything shared in our conversation remains strictly confidential, unless there is a clear risk of harm to yourself or others. Recording (audio or video) is not permitted without explicit mutual consent.

3. Professional Intent

Coffee with Mary is a space for reflection, personal growth, and emotional clarity — not a date, therapy, or emergency support.
Sessions are non-clinical and non-therapeutic, and do not replace medical or psychological treatment.

4. Identification & Presence

To ensure trust and transparency, clients may be asked to verify their identity (e.g., LinkedIn, Instagram handle, or phone number). Sessions are only confirmed with pre-booked, verified individuals.

5. Cancellation & Conduct

Cancellations must be made at least 24 hours in advance. Late cancellations or no-shows may result in forfeiting the session fee. The facilitator reserves the right to decline or reschedule sessions if safety or alignment is in question.

TEDx Luxembourg City 2021

RTL Today radio The Melissa dalton show

A random Saturday night at Carlitos Comedy Club Luxembourg

Octobre rose Fashion show 2024

Orange Week 2021 

Labels in society (TEDx Luxembourg 2021)

International Women’s Day 2022

Live chat 2020 (still in chemotherapy – cancer survival uncertain)

Conférence (Banque de Luxembourg) 2023

1 enfant sur 5

Conférence (Banque de Luxembourg) 2023

‘Pourquoi n’as-tu rien dit plus tôt ?’

THE BOOKs

Match Aligned

MATCH ALIGNED! is now available for pre-order.

This book is an invitation to choose alignment over chaos, quality over quantity, and presence over performance — in dating, relationships, work, and life.

As a thank-you to early readers, the pre-order is available with 25% off, and copies will be received up to one week before the official launch.

Cruelly Betrayed

I put my own father in prison. 16 years of sexual abuse and threats. 16 years of fear and silence. 16 years of forced smiles and resilience. 10 years of studies. 7 years of pregnancy. 4 years of criminal trials. 10 years of marriage. 5 years of deception. Half a year of cancer…and only 37 years old.

There was no time to ask ‘Why me ?’. Facing my own mortality made me realise that a big chapter of my life was not over yet and that I was not as free as I thought I was. These pages have written themselves in the middle of a still, ongoing heavy storm.

Nicolas, a charismatic Christian figure, a sacrificing husband, and a hailed hero. But who is Nicolas really? What is hiding behind the smile of this seemingly generous father of six? What is his darkest secret?

Following her mother’s death, Mary felt the urgent need to understand exactly what had happened to her estranged mother. She embarked on a painful quest to dig up 30 years of archives, but what she discovered was beyond anything she could ever have imagined…

News & BLOG

New Book Release 2023

The writing is surprisingly flowing, which only means one thing: it was about time (again)!
New book release planned for the first half of 2023!✍🏻📚❤️

Interview – Janette Magazine

Ecrit en huit semaines pendant sa chimiothérapie, 'Trahie dans sa chair' est une ode à la vie, une leçon de courage et de bonheur face au parcours de vie semé d'embûches de Mary Faltz. Rencontre avec l'auteure, qui vit au Luxembourg avec ses quatre enfants.

Table ronde am Lycée Nic Biever

Merci dem Schülercomité vum Lycée Nic-Biever - LNB Dudelange fir d’Initiative fir iwert sou e wichtegt Thema ze schwätzen! Et war eng immens interessant Ronn an et war secherlech net déi läschte Kéier!Merci och dem Ana Pinto, Charel Schmit (Ombudsman fir Kanner an...

Same same but different – 20 Questions

What an honor to welcome this week's guest. She is a true fighter; a true survivor and a total inspiration. She is: Mary Faltz. Mary has recently published a book entitled Cruelly Betrayed which talks about her tumultuous life: Mary put her father in prison after 16...

Keynote lecture at the European Investment Bank

Thanks to the European Investment Bank VP Lilyana Pavlova, Una Clifford and Reneta Dimitrova for the warm welcome and the kind invitation to be the keynote speaker in yesterday’s event. Congratulations to all the nominated men and women who go above and beyond...

A love letter to my body

Dear Body of Mine, I feel the need to write a love letter to you today as I am filled with absolute pride, respect, admiration and gratitude towards you. Contrary to what my book cover is stating, I do not feel betrayed by you anymore. I have grown up hating you from...

Groupe de parole (Facebook)

Ce groupe privé est strictement destiné à toute personne, de sexe masculin ou féminin, qui a survécu à l’abus sexuel durant l’enfance et/ou jeunesse. Vous pouvez parler ouvertement, de façon anonyme ou simplement être spectateur sans contribution tout en étant à...

Entre 4 murs – La violence sous toutes ses formes (Conférence-Débat)

Entre 4 murs - La violence sous toutes ses formes Conférence-débat par Dr Mary Faltz 4 décembre 2025 à 18:30  Maison pour Tous, Olm (Elmen) - Gemeng Kielen La violence, sous toutes ses formes, façonne nos sociétés et nos relations. Dans le cadre de la Orange Week au...

Reviews

A powerful, captivating testimony of human resilience in the face of multiple life traumas.

Jane McLelland

Award-winning, Bestselling author of How To Starve Cancer and a Stage IV cancer survivor of 26 years

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