Mary Faltz
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About Mary

 

Dr. Mary Faltz is a clinical research scientist and an accredited pharmacist. The second born in a family of six children, she is a survivor of child abuse that lasted 16 years.

Pushed to the extreme by her abuser, she finally gathered all her courage and pressed charges when she turned 26.

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Book launch & Keynote on 14th february in lux-city

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Coffee with Mary

1:1 informal conversation for clarity and connection (60 or 90 minutes)

Code of conduct

To ensure a safe, respectful, and empowering space for meaningful conversation, all clients are asked to agree to the following principles before attending a session:

1. Respect & Boundaries

Sessions are held in public cafés or quiet shared spaces for mutual comfort and safety. Any form of aggressive, disrespectful, inappropriate, or intrusive behavior will result in immediate termination of the session. Please arrive on time and respect the agreed-upon session duration.

2. Confidentiality

Everything shared in our conversation remains strictly confidential, unless there is a clear risk of harm to yourself or others. Recording (audio or video) is not permitted without explicit mutual consent.

3. Professional Intent

Coffee with Mary is a space for reflection, personal growth, and emotional clarity — not a date, therapy, or emergency support.
Sessions are non-clinical and non-therapeutic, and do not replace medical or psychological treatment.

4. Identification & Presence

To ensure trust and transparency, clients may be asked to verify their identity (e.g., LinkedIn, Instagram handle, or phone number). Sessions are only confirmed with pre-booked, verified individuals.

5. Cancellation & Conduct

Cancellations must be made at least 24 hours in advance. Late cancellations or no-shows may result in forfeiting the session fee. The facilitator reserves the right to decline or reschedule sessions if safety or alignment is in question.

TEDx Luxembourg City 2021

RTL Today radio The Melissa dalton show

A random Saturday night at Carlitos Comedy Club Luxembourg

Octobre rose Fashion show 2024

Orange Week 2021 

Labels in society (TEDx Luxembourg 2021)

International Women’s Day 2022

Live chat 2020 (still in chemotherapy – cancer survival uncertain)

Conférence (Banque de Luxembourg) 2023

1 enfant sur 5

Conférence (Banque de Luxembourg) 2023

‘Pourquoi n’as-tu rien dit plus tôt ?’

THE BOOKs

Match Aligned

MATCH ALIGNED! is now available for pre-order.

This book is an invitation to choose alignment over chaos, quality over quantity, and presence over performance — in dating, relationships, work, and life.

As a thank-you to early readers, the pre-order is available with 25% off, and copies will be received up to one week before the official launch.

Cruelly Betrayed

I put my own father in prison. 16 years of sexual abuse and threats. 16 years of fear and silence. 16 years of forced smiles and resilience. 10 years of studies. 7 years of pregnancy. 4 years of criminal trials. 10 years of marriage. 5 years of deception. Half a year of cancer…and only 37 years old.

There was no time to ask ‘Why me ?’. Facing my own mortality made me realise that a big chapter of my life was not over yet and that I was not as free as I thought I was. These pages have written themselves in the middle of a still, ongoing heavy storm.

Nicolas, a charismatic Christian figure, a sacrificing husband, and a hailed hero. But who is Nicolas really? What is hiding behind the smile of this seemingly generous father of six? What is his darkest secret?

Following her mother’s death, Mary felt the urgent need to understand exactly what had happened to her estranged mother. She embarked on a painful quest to dig up 30 years of archives, but what she discovered was beyond anything she could ever have imagined…

News & BLOG

Conférence-Débat au Centre Hospitalier Emile Mayrisch à Esch s/ Alzette le 26 novembre 2024

Dr Mary Faltz en conférence au CHEM dans le cadre de la Orange Week. Lors de sa conférence intitulée « Instinct de survie... Entre terreur, espoir et courage : réagissons-nous toutes de la même manière face à la violence ? », le Dr Faltz a rappelé les enjeux cruciaux...

PAPERJAM Interview

Mary Faltz est une survivante. A seulement 37 ans, elle a vécu autant d'épreuves qu'une personne de 80 ans. Pourtant, elle reste irrémédiablement positive et souriante.

Interview – Janette Magazine

Ecrit en huit semaines pendant sa chimiothérapie, 'Trahie dans sa chair' est une ode à la vie, une leçon de courage et de bonheur face au parcours de vie semé d'embûches de Mary Faltz. Rencontre avec l'auteure, qui vit au Luxembourg avec ses quatre enfants.

Conférence-Débat à Niederanven le 16 octobre 2024

Conférence-débat dans le cadre des semaines de la santé mentale organisé par la commune de Niederanven Gemeng Nidderaanwen 🚩Mercredi, le 16 octobre 2024 à 19h00 au Centre Polyvalent « A Schommesch » à Oberanven. « Les violences psychologiques, physiques et sexuelles...

More empathy and less sympathy

More empathy and less sympathy is the way forward A reminder of the difference between the 2, beautifully drawn by Jocelyne Kohnen for my TEDx talk. In other words: ‘Kindness is loaning someone your strength, instead of reminding them of their weakness’ (author...

UK Health Radio Interview

The Therapy Suite on UK Health RadioThis week, I talk to clinical research scientist and pharmacist Dr. Mary Faltz. We talk about her experience with cancer, childhood sexual abuse and her new book 'Cruelly betrayed'. 

Reviews

A powerful, captivating testimony of human resilience in the face of multiple life traumas.

Jane McLelland

Award-winning, Bestselling author of How To Starve Cancer and a Stage IV cancer survivor of 26 years

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