Mary Faltz
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About Mary

 

Dr. Mary Faltz is a clinical research scientist and an accredited pharmacist. The second born in a family of six children, she is a survivor of child abuse that lasted 16 years.

Pushed to the extreme by her abuser, she finally gathered all her courage and pressed charges when she turned 26.

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Coffee with Mary

1:1 informal conversation for clarity and connection (60 or 90 minutes)

Code of conduct

To ensure a safe, respectful, and empowering space for meaningful conversation, all clients are asked to agree to the following principles before attending a session:

1. Respect & Boundaries

Sessions are held in public cafés or quiet shared spaces for mutual comfort and safety. Any form of aggressive, disrespectful, inappropriate, or intrusive behavior will result in immediate termination of the session. Please arrive on time and respect the agreed-upon session duration.

2. Confidentiality

Everything shared in our conversation remains strictly confidential, unless there is a clear risk of harm to yourself or others. Recording (audio or video) is not permitted without explicit mutual consent.

3. Professional Intent

Coffee with Mary is a space for reflection, personal growth, and emotional clarity — not a date, therapy, or emergency support.
Sessions are non-clinical and non-therapeutic, and do not replace medical or psychological treatment.

4. Identification & Presence

To ensure trust and transparency, clients may be asked to verify their identity (e.g., LinkedIn, Instagram handle, or phone number). Sessions are only confirmed with pre-booked, verified individuals.

5. Cancellation & Conduct

Cancellations must be made at least 24 hours in advance. Late cancellations or no-shows may result in forfeiting the session fee. The facilitator reserves the right to decline or reschedule sessions if safety or alignment is in question.

RTL Today radio The Melissa dalton show

Octobre rose Fashion show 2024

Orange Week 2021 

Labels in society (TEDx Luxembourg 2021)

TEDx Luxembourg City 2021

A random Saturday night at Carlitos Comedy Club Luxembourg

International Women’s Day 2022

Live chat 2020 (still in chemotherapy – cancer survival uncertain)

Conférence (Banque de Luxembourg) 2023

1 enfant sur 5

Conférence (Banque de Luxembourg) 2023

‘Pourquoi n’as-tu rien dit plus tôt ?’

THE BOOKs

Match Aligned

MATCH ALIGNED! is now available.

This book is an invitation to choose alignment over chaos, quality over quantity, and presence over performance — in dating, relationships, work, and life.

Cruelly Betrayed

I put my own father in prison. 16 years of sexual abuse and threats. 16 years of fear and silence. 16 years of forced smiles and resilience. 10 years of studies. 7 years of pregnancy. 4 years of criminal trials. 10 years of marriage. 5 years of deception. Half a year of cancer…and only 37 years old.

There was no time to ask ‘Why me ?’. Facing my own mortality made me realise that a big chapter of my life was not over yet and that I was not as free as I thought I was. These pages have written themselves in the middle of a still, ongoing heavy storm.

Nicolas, a charismatic Christian figure, a sacrificing husband, and a hailed hero. But who is Nicolas really? What is hiding behind the smile of this seemingly generous father of six? What is his darkest secret?

Following her mother’s death, Mary felt the urgent need to understand exactly what had happened to her estranged mother. She embarked on a painful quest to dig up 30 years of archives, but what she discovered was beyond anything she could ever have imagined…

News & BLOG

Extract from My new book ‘My Father’

The first pages of 'My Father'

Relais pour la vie 2022

Thank you Michele Fox for creating this wonderful initiative Jonk & Kriibs through which I got to know many other cancer survivors my age! To everyone out there still going through this cancer hell, I wish lots of courage, better days will come

Gratitude is key to Happiness

My 3-monthly lease on this beautiful thing called *Life* has been renewed🥰

Happy 4th Birthday to me!

Happy 4th Birthday to me!🥰🥂🍾🎂🎈 No words will ever do justice to the immense gratitude I feel to still be allowed to wake up every single day. I have never LIVED but have spent all my life since my childhood high on adrenaline and cortisol in extreme survival mode....

d’Lëtzebuerger Land -Femme de combats

Abusée par son père pendant seize ans, Mary Faltz brise l’omerta. Elle se bat contre les violences sexuelles. Mais pas que... Photo: Sven Becker

High Profile Magazine: The Women’s Edition

Dr. Mary Faltz is a clinical research scientist. She is also an 'accidental author', having written "Cruelly Betrayed", a book about her experiences of childhood abuse, whilst going through chemotherapy. She hopes that sharing her story will help give voice to the...

Happiness Conference at the University of Luxembourg

Thank you University of Luxembourg for having me today!!😁 I was very touched by the large turnout both in person and online. It was an absolute pleasure sharing my 5 steps with you, that in my humble opinion (today’s truth, tomorrow it may change) can contribute to...

Reviews

A powerful, captivating testimony of human resilience in the face of multiple life traumas.

Jane McLelland

Award-winning, Bestselling author of How To Starve Cancer and a Stage IV cancer survivor of 26 years

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