Mary Faltz
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About Mary

 

Dr. Mary Faltz is a clinical research scientist and an accredited pharmacist. The second born in a family of six children, she is a survivor of child abuse that lasted 16 years.

Pushed to the extreme by her abuser, she finally gathered all her courage and pressed charges when she turned 26.

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Photos from the Launch Event at Cercle Cité, Luxembourg City , 14th February 2026

Coffee with Mary

1:1 informal conversation for clarity and connection (60 or 90 minutes)

Code of conduct

To ensure a safe, respectful, and empowering space for meaningful conversation, all clients are asked to agree to the following principles before attending a session:

1. Respect & Boundaries

Sessions are held in public cafés or quiet shared spaces for mutual comfort and safety. Any form of aggressive, disrespectful, inappropriate, or intrusive behavior will result in immediate termination of the session. Please arrive on time and respect the agreed-upon session duration.

2. Confidentiality

Everything shared in our conversation remains strictly confidential, unless there is a clear risk of harm to yourself or others. Recording (audio or video) is not permitted without explicit mutual consent.

3. Professional Intent

Coffee with Mary is a space for reflection, personal growth, and emotional clarity — not a date, therapy, or emergency support.
Sessions are non-clinical and non-therapeutic, and do not replace medical or psychological treatment.

4. Identification & Presence

To ensure trust and transparency, clients may be asked to verify their identity (e.g., LinkedIn, Instagram handle, or phone number). Sessions are only confirmed with pre-booked, verified individuals.

5. Cancellation & Conduct

Cancellations must be made at least 24 hours in advance. Late cancellations or no-shows may result in forfeiting the session fee. The facilitator reserves the right to decline or reschedule sessions if safety or alignment is in question.

RTL Today radio The Melissa dalton show

Octobre rose Fashion show 2024

Orange Week 2021 

Labels in society (TEDx Luxembourg 2021)

International Women’s Day 2022

Match Aligned! Video presentation

Conférence (Banque de Luxembourg) 2023

1 enfant sur 5

Conférence (Banque de Luxembourg) 2023

‘Pourquoi n’as-tu rien dit plus tôt ?’

THE BOOKs

Match Aligned

MATCH ALIGNED! is now available.

This book is an invitation to choose alignment over chaos, quality over quantity, and presence over performance — in dating, relationships, work, and life.

Cruelly Betrayed

I put my own father in prison. 16 years of sexual abuse and threats. 16 years of fear and silence. 16 years of forced smiles and resilience. 10 years of studies. 7 years of pregnancy. 4 years of criminal trials. 10 years of marriage. 5 years of deception. Half a year of cancer…and only 37 years old.

There was no time to ask ‘Why me ?’. Facing my own mortality made me realise that a big chapter of my life was not over yet and that I was not as free as I thought I was. These pages have written themselves in the middle of a still, ongoing heavy storm.

Nicolas, a charismatic Christian figure, a sacrificing husband, and a hailed hero. But who is Nicolas really? What is hiding behind the smile of this seemingly generous father of six? What is his darkest secret?

Following her mother’s death, Mary felt the urgent need to understand exactly what had happened to her estranged mother. She embarked on a painful quest to dig up 30 years of archives, but what she discovered was beyond anything she could ever have imagined…

News & BLOG

Groupe de parole (Facebook)

Ce groupe privé est strictement destiné à toute personne, de sexe masculin ou féminin, qui a survécu à l’abus sexuel durant l’enfance et/ou jeunesse. Vous pouvez parler ouvertement, de façon anonyme ou simplement être spectateur sans contribution tout en étant à...

UK Health Radio Interview

The Therapy Suite on UK Health RadioThis week, I talk to clinical research scientist and pharmacist Dr. Mary Faltz. We talk about her experience with cancer, childhood sexual abuse and her new book 'Cruelly betrayed'. 

More empathy and less sympathy

More empathy and less sympathy is the way forward A reminder of the difference between the 2, beautifully drawn by Jocelyne Kohnen for my TEDx talk. In other words: ‘Kindness is loaning someone your strength, instead of reminding them of their weakness’ (author...

Keynote lecture at the European Investment Bank

Thanks to the European Investment Bank VP Lilyana Pavlova, Una Clifford and Reneta Dimitrova for the warm welcome and the kind invitation to be the keynote speaker in yesterday’s event. Congratulations to all the nominated men and women who go above and beyond...

Le film qui fait ressurgir un drame familial

Le Film Fund a suspendu son soutien financier au nouveau film du Luxembourgeois Adolf El Assal. Son père a joué un rôle dans un autre film du réalisateur – également financé avec de l’argent public. Le père a fait de la prison pour abus sexuel. Photo: Mike...

Conférence-Débat ‘Entre 4 murs’ – Cercle cité (28 septembre 2023)

Un grand merci à la Fondation Maison de la Porte Ouverte, à la Ville de Luxembourg et au Cercle Cité pour l’organisation de la conférence ‘Entre 4 murs’. Merci aussi à Maurice Bauer, Myriam Mersch-Zimmer et aux intervenantes de la table ronde Lisset Gabarron,...

d’Lëtzebuerger Land -Femme de combats

Abusée par son père pendant seize ans, Mary Faltz brise l’omerta. Elle se bat contre les violences sexuelles. Mais pas que... Photo: Sven Becker

Reviews

A powerful, captivating testimony of human resilience in the face of multiple life traumas.

Jane McLelland

Award-winning, Bestselling author of How To Starve Cancer and a Stage IV cancer survivor of 26 years

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